Stari Grad Ozalj, the historic Croatian castle where Katarina Frankopan and Krsto Zrinski were married, symbolizing a powerful union in Croatia's noble history

Letters of Love and Courage: The Frankopans, Zrinskis, and the Heart of Croatia

September 28, 20246 min read

Moje drago szerce ...

(My dear heart...)

-- Petar Zrinski


Croatia is a country shaped by beauty and resilience, a place where the azure waters of the Adriatic meet ancient forests and medieval fortresses. But beyond its scenic landscapes, Croatia’s heart beats in its stories—stories of love, courage, and defiance, passed down through generations. Among these, the letters of the Frankopans and Zrinskis, two of Croatia's most illustrious noble families, offer a window into a time when words could carry both hope and sorrow. To truly feel their power, there's no better way than to learn the language in which they were written: Croatian.

A Glimpse into the Past: The Letters and Lives of the Frankopans and Zrinskis

Portrait of Katarina Zrinski, Croatian noblewoman and poet, known for her courage and literary contributions as part of the Zrinski family legacy, a symbol of Croatian resilience and history.

In 1641, a wedding like no other took place in Karlovac and Ozalj, uniting two of Croatia's most powerful families—the Frankopans and Zrinskis. The marriage of Ana Katarina Frankopan and Petar Zrinski was not just a union of noble bloodlines but a celebration of culture, power, and love. Attended by royalty and dignitaries from across Europe, it was an event that symbolized the merging of two great legacies.

Portrait of Petar Zrinski, Croatian nobleman and military leader, known for his courageous resistance against Habsburg rule and his famous final letter to his wife, symbolizing Croatian patriotism

Ana Katarina Frankopan, a woman of intellect and grace, brought her literary talents and political influence to the marriage, while Petar Zrinski, a courageous warrior and nobleman, shared her passion for their homeland. Their union was one of mutual respect and deep affection, a partnership that would be tested by the turbulent times in which they lived.

The Power of Words in Times of Despair

Their love story, however, is perhaps best remembered not through their glamorous wedding, but through the heartbreaking letters they exchanged during their final days. In 1671, as leaders of a resistance against Habsburg absolutism, Fran Krsto Frankopan and Petar Zrinski were sentenced to death. In their final hours, they wrote to their wives, Julia and Ana Katarina, letters that have since become some of the most poignant documents in Croatian history.

Petar Zrinski’s final letter to his wife Katarina, beginning with 'My dear heart,' symbolizing his enduring love and courage before his execution, a pivotal moment in Croatian history.

While Fran Krsto Frankopan wrote to Julia with grace and hope, it is Petar Zrinski’s letter to Ana Katarina that became a symbol of undying love and courage. His words resonate with a profound sense of faith and acceptance:

"My dear heart! Do not be saddened by the content of this letter, nor troubled. According to God's will, tomorrow at ten o'clock they will sever my head and likewise your brother's. Today we have sincerely forgiven each other. Therefore, I now, through this letter, take leave of you forever, begging you, if I have wronged you in any way or caused you any grief (which I know well I have) to forgive me!

Praise be to God, I am well prepared for death, and I am not afraid; I trust in Almighty God, who has humbled me in this world, that He will have mercy on me, and I shall pray and ask Him (whom I hope to meet tomorrow), that we may meet together before His holy throne in eternal glory. I do not know what more to write to you, neither for our son, nor for the completion of our poverty. I have left everything to God's will. Do not grieve, for this had to be so."

"MOJE DRAGO ZERCZE. Nemoj se žalostit svrhu ovoga moga pisma, niti burkati. Polag Božjega dokončanja sutra v deseti ore budu mene glavu sekli, i tulikajše naukupe tvojemu bratcu. Danas smo si jedan od drugoga srčeno prošćenje uzeli. Zato jemljem ja sada po ovom listu i od tebe jedan vekovečni valete, tebe proseći, ako sam te u čem zbantuval, ali ti se u čem zameril (koje ja dobro znam) oprosti mi.

Budi Bog hvaljen, ja sam k smrti dobro pripravan, niti se plašim, ja se ufam u Boga vsemogućega, koji me je na ovom svetu ponizil, da se tulikajše mene hoće smilovati, i ja ga budem molil i prosil (komu sutra dojti ufam se), da se mi naukupa pred njegovem svetem tronušem u dike vekivečne sastanemo. Veće ništar ne znam ti pisati, niti za sina, niti za druga dokončanja našega siromaštva. Ja sam vse na Božju volju ostavil. Ti se ništer ne žalosti, Ak je to tak moralo biti."

These final words capture not just a man’s readiness to face his fate but also his deep love for Ana Katarina, a love that transcended the despair of his situation. He leaves all earthly concerns, including their son and their poverty, to divine providence, expressing a serene courage and a hope for eternal reunion.

A Love Story for the Ages

The marriage of Ana Katarina and Petar Zrinski was one of Croatia’s most significant unions, not only for the power it symbolized but for the deep bond of love and respect that underpinned it. Their story is a testament to the enduring strength of love, even in the face of unimaginable adversity. Reading their letters in the original Croatian reveals the full emotional depth of their experiences—something that translations can only hint at.

Why Learn Croatian? To Feel the Heartbeat of History

Why learn Croatian? Because it's not just a language—it's a key to understanding the emotional core of these stories. When you read these letters in their original form, you connect directly with the voices of those who lived them. You feel the rhythm of their words, the depth of their sorrow, and the intensity of their love.

Translations can give us the essence, but they often miss the nuances that make these letters so moving. Learning Croatian allows you to grasp the full emotional weight of the words, to understand the subtle choices the writers made, and to see the world through their eyes.

Discover the Heart of Croatia with Me

Learning Croatian is more than just mastering grammar and vocabulary; it's about unlocking a deeper connection with a culture that has so much to offer. It's about standing beside the Frankopans and Zrinskis, feeling their struggles, their joys, and their undying love for their homeland.

By learning Croatian, you’ll open a door to stories that are rich with human experience. You’ll discover the passion of a people who have always fought for their freedom, their identity, and their right to speak their own language. And you’ll see why this beautiful language is worth every effort to learn.

Join Me on This Journey of Language and Discovery

Are you ready to dive into the heartfelt stories of Croatia’s past? To read letters that speak across the ages and understand the courage and love that defined an era? Join me, and let’s explore the language that carries these incredible stories.

Together, we’ll learn Croatian not just as a means of communication, but as a way to connect with the soul of a nation—a nation shaped by the love letters and courage of its people.

Let’s begin, one word at a time.

If you found the story of Petar Zrinski and Katarina Frankopan's love and courage inspiring, you’ll want to dive deeper into their incredible legacy in my latest YouTube video! 🎥 In this video, I explore the history, emotions, and significance behind Zrinski's final letter to his beloved wife, uncovering the rich cultural tapestry that shaped Croatia’s history.

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Associate Professor at the University of Zagreb pursuing her passion of teaching Croatian language and culture. Perfect for beginners and intermediates

Tihana Klepač

Associate Professor at the University of Zagreb pursuing her passion of teaching Croatian language and culture. Perfect for beginners and intermediates

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